Adoption
Who can decide whether I place my child for adoption?
Every birthing person in Missouri, including those under 18, in Missouri has the right to decide whether they will relinquish or place their child for adoption. Both birth/first parents, if both are known, must give permission for the adoption. There are special protections for people under 18 placing children for adoption, including the right to be represented by a lawyer.
Even if you have started the process of placing your child for adoption, or are working with an adoption agency, you have the right to change your mind. This is true even if the adoption agency or hopeful adoptive parents have spent money based on the expectation that you will give them your child. Until the child is born, and the legal adoption process is complete, you have right to reconsider and decide to parent.
Who can help me if I am considering adoption?
An adoption agency can tell you more about the process and help you decide whether adoption is right for you. However, not all adoption agencies treat birth/first parents with the respect they deserve. We can connect you with ethical, non-discriminatory adoption agencies that will not pressure or coerce you into choosing adoption or try to prevent you from choosing abortion. If you are feeling pressured into choosing adoption, Right By You can provide more information on your rights and the help that may be available. For more information, text us at 855-458-0886.